Playing With Play-Doh Week Five “All things work together for good.”

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Activity/ Discussion for 5th and 6th grade Awana or Sunday School. Have the kids start to make a vase. Just make the beginning part of it like I did. See how they do with getting the ball into the right shape, forming the ball, and then the bowl. Do they know that the Lord is with them at all times and that nothing that happens in their lives is in an accident? Point out Bible characters like Daniel when God brought them through a furnace without getting burned. Talk about how God uses trials in our lives to mold us into a shape that’s pleasing to Him. This would be a good week to lead the kids in a prayer of salvation.

I am beginning to make a vase again. I made the bowl without any help from Jessica. Yay! It took me a while to form the ball into the right shape so the play-doh wouldn’t break into pieces, but I finally did get it. I just kept saying, “Take a deep breath. Don’t get frustrated.” The next step was forming the opening for the hole. That was harder. Jessica tried to describe to me how to do it but my brain just couldn’t get it. Jessica had to show me. That’s okay. Jessica is very patient. In fact, sometimes if Jessica sees me getting frustrated, she’ll tickle me to make me laugh. Then I’m okay again. Just like Jessica had to show me how to form the hole for the vase, sometimes as Christians, we don’t understand what the Lord is doing in our lives until we get through the trial. We say, “Why Lord why?” The Lord says, “Just trust me.” After we get through the trial, we see that the Lord has taught us more about Him if we’ll only just stand back and watch the Lord work in our lives. Then we can say, “Thank you Lord for helping me to become more like you. Thank you that there’s a purpose for my trials. Help me to trust you in hard times so I can be a light and lead others to you. In the midst of suffering, help me to proclaim your goodness. Thank you for being patient with me. Amen.” Romans 8:28 says, “And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love Him, who are called according to his purpose.”

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Play With Play-Doh Week Four “He who began a good work in you.”

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Over the next couple weeks, I will be trying to make a vase. These pictures are just the beginning. This is my first time doing something without any help from Jessica! Notice how I’m having a hard time keeping the pieces of play-doh together as I roll the clump of it around in a circle trying to form a ball. As Christians, until we get home to heaven, the Lord is always working on us. He’s refining our character as he picks up the broken pieces in our lives and putting us back together to make us more like Him. In Philippians  1:4 -6, the apostle Paul says, “In all my prayers for all of you, I always pray with joy because of your partnership in the gospel from the first day until now, being confident of this, that he who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion until the day of Christ Jesus.” Lord, thank you for picking up the broken pieces in my life and shaping me into something beautiful. I can’t wait to see what You do next in my life! Amen.

Activity/Discussion for 5th and 6th grade Awana or Sunday school. Talk to the kids about a time when something special to them broke. Maybe a favorite toy. Were they able to fix it? How about relationship problems with a close friend or family member? Were they able to resolve the conflict? Certain things in life can’t always be fixed such as the consequences for a bad choice we made in life. However, when we turn our lives over to God, He is able to fix the wounds in our hearts and make us as good as new. We become a new creation in Christ. Also, talk about how no one is perfect until they get to heaven. We will all make mistakes every now then, but God forgives the person with a sincere heart who asks for forgiveness. The important thing is to learn from our mistakes. God is always working on us!

 

 

 

Playing With Play-Doh Week Three “Why did you make me like this?”

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Here are all the steps it took for me to make a bowl. Here’s the finished product. Notice how the edges are not formed perfectly. That’s okay. I did it myself. It’s my own unique creation. How would you feel if you made something and that thing talked back to you and said, “I don’t like the way I’m made.” How would you feel after you did all that work? Imagine how the Lord must feel when we take this pill and that pill trying to fix the body parts we don’t like on ourselves. His feelings must be really hurt. Romans 9:20-21 says, “ But who are you, a human being, to talk back to God? “Shall what is formed say to the one who formed it, ‘Why did you make me like this?’” Does not the potter have the right to make out of the same lump of clay some pottery for special purposes and some for common use?” Lord, forgive us when we use the world’s beauty products to fix ourselves and tell you you’ve made a mistake. You NEVER make mistakes. Help us to recognize the unique and special purpose you’ve designed for each one of us for and to use our gifts and talents to honor you. Amen.

Activity /Discussion for 5th and 6th grade Awana or Sunday School. Talk to the kids about what some of their gifts and talents are. What are some ways the kids can use their gifts and talents to honor the Lord? Talk about the parable of the talents found in Matthew 25:14-30. Encourage kids to use their gifts and talents to honor the one who gave them to them in the first place, and thank the Lord for their abilities.

Playing With Play-Doh Week Two “Before I formed you, I knew you.”

Today Jessica and I played with play-doh again. This is me smoothing out the rough edges in the center of the play-doh with the rolling pin. I’m very focused. Jessica first handed me the play-doh and said, “Flatten it.” Then I did what you see here. I had trouble applying the right amount of pressure at first. Then Jessica said, “Pretend there’s treasure underneath and you’re digging for chocolate.” Then I was able to do it just right. My brain relates well to candy. Jessica knows me well!

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Here, I’m working on isolating my fingers one at a time and making fingerprints in the play-doh. It wasn’t easy, especially with the pinky! It kept wanting to sneak in at the same time as my ring finger. Jessica had to help me hold it back. Notice how all the fingerprints are unique. None of them are alike. Each one is unique which is what makes them special. As Christians, God calls us to be set apart. This means not giving into the ways of the world, including everything we do, even the way we think about our outer appearances. I don’t have a problem with wearing makeup. I wear makeup sometimes for special occasions. However, I have a problem when women spend five or six hours in the bathroom putting on make-up every day just to look like their favorite movie star. The reason people look the way they do on t.v. is due to technology that’s in the studios. No one ever has, “The perfect look.” There will always be something you don’t like about your body if you focus on it that much. Instead, people should focus on whether or not their hearts are right with the Lord. God doesn’t make mistakes. Jeremiah 1:5 says, “Before I formed you in the womb I knew you. before you were born I set you apart; I appointed you as a prophet to the nations.” Amen! Thank you, Lord, that that you knew me before you formed me. Help me to celebrates my uniqueness, and live as someone who is set apart to honor you. Amen.

Activity/Discussion for 5th and 6th grade Awana or Sunday School Do what I did with the play-doh. Have the kids make their own fingerprints in it and talk about how each fingerprint is unique. Have a conversation about how each person is a gift because of their uniqueness. That’s how we learn from each other. God is the master artist. Close in a time of prayer, and quote Jeremiah 1:5. Pray that God would help them to be set apart as prophets to the nations.

Am I A Mistake? A Lesson About Depending On God In Hard Times

Here’s another Bible Lesson I wrote for kids. The model for this lesson is taken from this website. http://ministry-to-children.com/freedom-from-sin-lesson/ I thought I would write for them when I saw a Help Wanted Ad and then I found out that was old and the company isn’t hiring anymore. Again, if anyone knows of a company, please let me know. Thanks for reading! Enjoy!

Am I A Mistake?

Age Range: 7-12

Key Verse: 2 Corinthians 12: 8-10 “Three times I pleaded with the Lord to take it away from me. But he said to me, “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.” Therefore I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ’s power may rest on me. That is why, for Christ’s sake, I delight in weaknesses, in insults, in hardships, in persecutions, in difficulties. For when I am weak, then I am strong.”

Gospel Connection: We live in a where people are expected to have “The Perfect body.” The right height, slim legs, etc. What happens what someone has legs that don’t run very fast or hands that don’t quite work like everyone else’s? Does God make mistakes? Talk about the story of the apostle Paul. It wasn’t until he was blinded by the light that he became a Christian and started depending on God.

Aim: Talk to kids about how God designed us to be made in his own image. He doesn’t make mistakes. Point unique traits about each person and tell them how our differences are what help us learn from each other about God’s goodness. Our heart is what really matters. God values a person who fears his name more than our outer appearances. When we are weak then he is strong. His power is made perfect in our weakness.

Start a conversation. Ask kids when they remember having difficult times in their lives and when did they do during those difficult times? Did they pray and talk to God? Remind them that God is there in times of trouble.  Sing “Jesus Loves Me.” Close in a time of prayer thanking God for being strong in our weaknesses and thank him that his word says, “All things work together for good.” (Romans 8:28. NIV)

Basic supply List: Come in an exercise suit ready to face hardship head on. Have kids participate in exercises. Do sit ups, push-ups, and jumping jacks, ten each. Reach for the toes, do neck stretches, reach your arms your arms up to the sky and get ready to face any hardship life might bring. Maybe even bring weights or barbells any kind of portable exercise equipment you have at home. By the end of the lesson kids should know that real strength is found in depending on God for our hardships and no one is a mistake.

Other Ideas: Another scripture to talk about is 2 Corinthians 12 15:21 where it says, “Now if the foot should say, “Because I am not a hand, I do not belong to the body,” it would not for that reason stop being part of the body. And if the ear should say, “Because I am not an eye, I do not belong to the body,” it would not for that reason stop being part of the body. If the whole body were an eye, where would the sense of hearing be? If the whole body were an ear, where would the sense of smell be? But in fact God has placed the parts in the body, every one of them, just as he wanted them to be. If they were all one part, where would the body be? As it is, there are many parts, but one body.

The eye cannot say to the hand, “I don’t need you!” And the head cannot say to the feet, “I don’t need you!”  On the contrary, those parts of the body that seem to be weaker are indispensable, and the parts that we think are less honorable we treat with special honor. And the parts that are unpresentable are treated with special modesty, while our presentable parts need no special treatment. But God has put the body together, giving greater honor to the parts that lacked it, so that there should be no division in the body, but that its parts should have equal concern for each other.  If one part suffers, every part suffers with it; if one part is honored, every part rejoices with it.”

God wants us to use the body he has given us to glorify him. Whether or not you have a “normal” body like everyone else really doesn’t matter. There’s so much out there that if we waste time trying to be “perfect” It’s never going to happen!  Instead of always trying to fix what we don’t like about ours elves, we should be asking, “How can I use what I have to glorify God my Creator?” Encourage the kids to thank God that they are fearfully and wonderfully made. Ask how can I serve others and the church in the body I have? No matter how many parts work, there’s something everyone can do to honor the Lord.

Author’s Note: I talk about hands that don’t work or feet that don’t walk like everyone else’s because I have cerebral palsy. I use a wheelchair. If someone is in a wheelchair or cannot stand because they have a physical limitation, have them do jumping jacks by bringing their arms straight up, and then touching their hands together. Have them lift their legs one at a time.  Maybe have them bring their arms straight up and then bend the elbows behind their head. Have them bring one arm straight up and stretch over to the other side and then do the same thing with the other arm.  Fingers exercises where they open and close their hands. They may not be able to do everything everyone else is doing, but that’s okay. It’s another great way to show the kids they are fearfully and wonderfully made. Each child should do what he or she can based on his or her ability. That’s all part of being a part of the body of Christ. As my mother tells me, “Focus on what you can do, rather than on what you can’t.” Have fun with it!

 

Playing with Play-Doh Week One The Importance of Forming A Solid Biblical Foundation

Yesterday Jessica and I played with Play-Doh. I know It’s summer, but I’m already thinking about another lesson for my Awana kids. We live in a world where the media is after girls especially to look “perfect.” The right height,  slim legs. etc. I want to communicate that we are fearfully and wonderfully made by God. Each one of them is perfect in his eyes. The Bible has a few verses where it talks about how God is the potter and we are the clay such as in Jeremiah 18:-3-4, where it says, “So I went down to the potter’s house, and I saw him working at the wheel. But the pot he was shaping from the clay was marred in his hands; so the potter formed it into another pot, shaping it as seemed best to him.” I want to talk to the girls about how God doesn’t make mistakes. Over the summer, my friend Jessica will be coming to my house every Monday. I will be playing with Play-Doh trying to see what I can make. Every week you will see pictures and read about the different exercises we did with my hands.  Join me on my journey as I work with Play-Doh. I’m excited to see what hands will do!

 

Play- doh My fingers tend to have a hard time gripping things and holding on especially with my left hand. Jessica had me hold the book. upright with all my fingers. Many times my Index finger is what I call “The flying finger” because it sticks up while all my other fingers are on the object. I have to practice what’s called Internal and external rotation with my hands. That means turning my hands inward and outward flipping my palms over. When I had trouble getting my fingers to grab the book Jessica said, “Imagine you don’t have magical hands that can go through a wall.” I laughed. I know what you’re thinking. “What does this have to do with playing with play-doh?” We’re trying to work on finger dexterity. When I hold the rolling pin. all my fingers need to be wrapped around it firmly so I can push it.

Activity/ Discussion for 5th and 6th Grade Awana or Sunday School. This is an activity that should be done outdoors. Get a bag of sand and stack legos. See how well the legos stand in the sand. Try just making a tower. Talk to the kids about the Importance of having a firm foundation in their Christian walk Talk about the parable of the wise man and the foolish man found in Matthew 7:24-25. Sing the song about the wise man and the foolish man. Our hearts are more pliable to what God wants to do in our lives if we have a solid foundation in Christ like the wise man.

 

 

 

 

 

 

Narrow Is The Gate The Skit I Did For My Awana Kids

This is the skit I performed for my 5th and 6th grade Awana girls. They loved it! There was lots of laughter. It actually rained that night and the brown paper actually got stuck on my tires. April Larsen, our room director, actually had to work to pull it off. How perfect! At the end I told the kids they got to see what happens in real life. The Lord has a sense of humor! I’d like to submit this to a company who writes Bible Lessons and skits for kids. If anyone knows of a good market for this, please let me know. Writing Bible lessons and skits for kids would be my ideal job. Enjoy! P.S. This video is only the first half of the skit. Unfortunately, my co-leader’s phone ran out of power. Fortunately, you can see the entire skit written down here. Notice how huge my wheelchair is. That’s why I have such a hard time staying on the narrow pathway sometimes. I’m still not perfect at it but I’ve gotten a lot better at it with time. It’s what gave me the idea to write this Bible Lesson.The narrow pathway in the back entrance of my home can be used as a great analogy that applies to the Christian life.

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This is the narrow gateway going into my home. It’s very difficult to stay on the narrow pathway with my huge wheelchair.

 

 

 

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What happens when I’m not paying attention and have my wheelchair on rabbit speed.

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While the mud on my tires can be hosed down and wiped off, the same thing can’t always be said for the consequences for our choices in life. That’s why it pays to stay on God’s narrow pathway. Staying on the narrow pathway helps us stay out of the mud and avoid regrets later.

 

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Have a caution sign. “Narrow Road Ahead. Drive slowly.”  The Bible says. “We live by faith not by sight.” (2 Corinth. 5:7). “Danger” is my middle name! I got this! Here I go full speed ahead!  Driving too fast I get stuck in the mud. Oh no! My wheelchair is stuck. Now what?

Discussion Questions

What do you think it means to live by faith not by sight?

Be careful about choices you make in life you may regret it. How are you going to explain to God about your choices? Romans 8:1-8. Following the narrow path way you have true sight. What does God promise to do with our do with our unknown paths when we follow him? Isaiah 42:16

Why does the world see us as narrow minded? 2 Corinth. 4:4. & John 15:18

How should we respond to those that don’t like us? Matt. 5:44

Closing: Talk about social media- intolerant/narrow minded. We can be a light at how we respond. Follow the narrow path and you won’t get stuck in the mud.

Key verse Matt 7:13-14

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“Boy it sure is rainy tonight. “Caution Narrow Road Ahead.  Drive slowly.” Oh well, I’m not worried. The Bible says, “We live by faith not by sight.” See my bumper sticker? “Danger” is my middle name! I live for adventure! I got this! Here I go full speed ahead! I’m walking by faith not by sight or should I say rolling by faith. Uh- Oh, What happened? I’m stuck.  Oh no! I can’t go. Help Help! Oh God, Please send someone to help get me out of the mud. I can’t do it on my own. Without you I am nothing. Amen.

April comes to help get me out of the mud.

“Hi. Can I help you?”

“Yes please.”

“What happened?”

“I was driving too fast and I didn’t see the mud hole now my tires are stuck and I can’t move. I need help pushing my wheelchair out of the mud.”

“Okay, let me see what I can do.”

April pushes the chair but it doesn’t move. I push my chair forward and pull back many times. Finally after much effort the chair is free from the mud.

“Look at those tires. What a mess! Now we have to hose them down and scrape them off. While we get the mud off my chair why don’t you look and see what the Bible has to say about narrow pathways. I’ll be back as soon as I get cleaned up.”

Discussion questions and then we come back after the mess is cleaned up.

“I finally got my tires all cleaned up. Guess I should’ve paid more attention to that sign. Next time I see a sign that says, “Narrow road” I’ll slow down and my chair won’t go off the path. Maybe I should wear a hard hat with a light. The good news is I’m out of the mud! Thank you April for helping me get out of the mud.”
“No problem. Anytime.”

“I guess I have a lot to learn about what “live by faith not by sight” means. I need to read my Bible more. I know Matthew 7:13 says, “Narrow is the gate.” I need to learn how to slow down, think things through and then I won’t get stuck in the mud.”

“Good idea.”

“Lord, help me to learn to follow your narrow pathway so my choices are pleasing to you. Give me true sight so I can be a light for you.” Amen.

Closing: Talk about social media.  Intolerant/ narrow-minded Quote John 14:6. God’s way is narrow. We can be a light by how we respond and maybe bring our friends to Christ. God has all the answers to all of our problems. If we think we have it bad, look at how Jesus got mocked on earth.  People hung Him on a cross because they didn’t like what He was teaching. Yet on the cross He said, “Father, forgive them for they do not know what they’re doing.” It’s because of what happened on the cross that we have hope of eternal life. It’s because of the narrow pathway God made for us through His son that we can share the good news. A Christ-like should be our response inwardly as we pray for unbelievers. Because of Jesus, we can face tomorrow! Jesus didn’t say the Christian Life would be easy!  John 16:33,

“I have said these things to you, that in me you may have peace. In the world you will have tribulation. But take heart; I have overcome the world.”

Our eternal future is in his hands when we stay on the narrow path and follow God’s way.

I live in The Bungalows which has a very narrow pathway. If I have my speed up too much and I’m not paying attention, I get my wheelchair tires stuck in the mud. Then my mom has to hose down the tires, scrape off the mud and dry the chair. Sometimes I have to leave my chair outside and transfer to my walker. The Christian life is the same way. When we really take the time to get to know God and follow His way, we find that God’s way is less muddy and we have fewer regrets. You don’t want to look back on a decision you made later and say, “Why did I do that?” When we follow God’s way that will happen less. Instead of asking, “Why?” We can say, “Thank you Lord for opening my eyes to the ultimate pathway.”

Activities

Make a narrow road on construction paper. Write God’s Way on the narrow pathway. Draw a wheelchair stick person. Talk about how there are two pathways. On the second Pathway write Man’s Way. Talk about how often the wider pathway looks more fun but leads to bad decisions and regrets later on life. Friends who don’t encourage us to make good choices such as disobeying our teachers or parents, or using foul language, or going on a questionable website. If the wheelchair goes too fast and off on the wide pathway, it will get stuck in the mud and then have to be cleaned off. God’s narrow pathway leads to joy, hope, a bright future, and keeps us out of the mud.  Then talk about how there are consequences for our actions when we don’t follow God’s narrow pathway. Even though God does forgive us when we confess our sins, the consequences for our choices can’t always be wiped away. That’s why it pays to stay on God’s narrow pathway.

Use the Discussion Questions as a guide to interact with the kids.

 

 

Joni and Friends Radio Contest

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Me with joni Eareckson Tada and Ken Tada at Family Retreat 2011 in Murrieta Hot Springs in San Diego CA. The theme was “Be Free!”

 

In April Joni and Friends had a radio contest for Easter. This May marks 35 years since she’a been on the air. Although I didn’t when the contest, I thought people would want to see what i wrote. Joni Eareckson Tada is one of my greatest inspirations for writing the way I do.  I listen to her radio program on her website  everyday.http://www.joniandfriends.org/radio/ I would love to start a ministry similar to hers with my writing someday.  Thank you Lord for Joni Eareckson Tada!

Spending four minutes a day with Joni Eareckson Tada is a real treasure. I have cerebral palsy, and I use a wheelchair. I’m 34. Listening to her radio program is a highlight in my day. Her broadcasts have inspired me to teach, minister, and write. I’m the author of a children’s book and I have a Blog. I teach kids in the Awana program at my church and I’m always quoting Joni’s sayings with the kids such as, “I’d rather be in this wheelchair knowing Him, then on my feet without Him.” I grew up in a Christian home. Joni has re-enforced the values my mother has taught me like, “Focus on what you can do.” Joni and her radio program have had such an impact on my life, as my writing advances, I’m trying to make my writing similar to hers. I want to have the same impact on special needs families she’s had on me. Not only do I volunteer at church, I also volunteer at my local hospital. I share Joni’s story all the time and tell people how she paints with her mouth. She doesn’t give up. When I think of Joni, I think of Philippians 4:13 where it says, “I can do everything through him who gives me strength!”

“The Perfect Writer” How I Learned to Write for Mother’s Day

This year I gave mom something special for Mother’s Day. It was a cookbook with quotes from famous people and recipes. Instead of buying her a card, I decided to write the greeting in the cookbook. After all, I’m a writer. What better to show love then write something by hand? I did it, but let me tell you. It wasn’t easy! I wrote:

“Happy Mother’s Day mom. I found this in Hallmark and I thought you would enjoy this since I know you like to cook. Some of the quotes are funny, some of the people have a real sense of humor.”

My friend Jessica helped me. The hardest part was getting the spacing between words correct. We practiced for a month every Monday. Many times, I’d write a sentence and it would come out looking like one long big word. Jessica made paper for me with all sorts of colors and very small squares so I would get used to writing words in small spaces and then my letters would get smaller. She also had me write on paper with no lines so I got used to writing in the book. We did it from many angles Jessica even put X’s where he spaces were too close. and O’s where she could tell there was a good enough amount of space between the words so she could read the sentences. I practiced from 10:00 until 2:00 when my mom got home from work. Sometimes I would do great and then other times I’d get frustrated because I couldn’t get the spacing right or a letter was too big. Sometimes I’d scribble a sentence and start writing the whole thing over. Other times I’d get another piece of paper, or I’d just throw down the pen on my tray. I knew she was my mom and she would understand, but I’m such a perfectionist. I wanted everything to be perfect. Some days Jessica would say, “Okay, you need to stop for the day. You’re getting so focused on being perfect It’s not coming out well.”

I practiced, practiced, and practiced. Finally, the day came when it was to wrap the gift. However, I needed to warm up. After all once it went in the book it wouldn’t be able to be fixed because I wrote it in pen. Finally, after much practice I got the spacing perfect on the very first line! The key was counting out loud as I moved my hand. “One two, three, space,” and then I would write the next word. I was hoping I would be able to do it completely independently without any help at all, but that didn’t happen. After practicing many times that day, it was time to just do it before mom got home. Jessica reminded me there would always be something I could’ve done better. It came down to I would handwrite the words myself and Jessica would verbally cue me. She would tell me things like. “Stop” and “Go to the next line.” She also made sure my sentences weren’t on top of each other.

She’d say, “Pull your letters down.” “Down down.” “Put the next sentence right there.” When I got hard on myself Jessica cheered me on and reminded me how far I’ve come. “Remember when I couldn’t even read your letters?” Then I was able to calm down and breathe.

I did great! The only thing I messed up on were the words this and in. Even though Jessica told me to stop, for some reason, I thought I could make the word in fit since it was only two letters. I was wrong. Oh no! The words this and in were too close! Ugh! So much for perfection!

“Just tell your mom you decided to get creative.” I moved on. As we went along, I began to recognize when a word needed to go on the next line. I finished writing the message and then I wrote “May 2017.”  Jessica did help me write the 2 but I did the rest all by myself. As we started wrapping the gift, we heard the garage door. Uh-oh. Mom’s home. We wrapped it quickly, and  then she walked in the door! Phew! Just in time!

Mother’s Day arrived. Mom opened her gift and loved it! When she saw my writing she said, “So that’s what you’ve been doing. That wasn’t easy for you was it?” She was very impressed I did it all by myself! It felt good to accomplish something and make Mom smile. She’s been reading the book and really enjoys it! Jessica reminded me if I keep up the practice next time I won’t need any guidance. I’m amazed how much repetition my brain needs. If I miss a day or a week and then try to go back and practice what I learned, it’s like my brain forgets, and then I have to start all over from the beginning. If I want to remember how to do something, I have to practice on a daily basis which means making rime to practice handwriting every day. I will because I don’t want to lose the skill. It took me a long time to make sure my mom could read my writing in the book! The other thing I need to remember is for Mom anything I give her is perfect!

Lord, help me to remember you are the perfect writer. Thank you for writing the perfect story for my life. Amen.

 

DreamRider The Inspirational Story of Bruce Jennings: Learning to Live with a Disability

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My mom and I have an App on our T.V. called Parables T.V. It has a whole bunch of Christian movies. One of my favorites is a movie called DreamRider. It’s a true story based on real events. Matthew Geriak plays the role of Bruce Jennings, who due to a motorcycle accident lost a leg at the age of 18, two weeks before high school graduation. Determined to walk across the stage to get his diploma, he learns to use a prosthetic leg.

About five years later, after he became a Cal State Fullerton student, he was hit by a car while he was riding a bike. He suffered internal injuries, a broken leg, shoulder and ribs. Sent to a convalescent home to get professional care, Bruce meets Mr. William Perry played by James Earl Jones who challenges Bruce to stop feeling sorry for himself and go to Boston to see the Old North Church to see if the model he made really is an exact replica of it. Up until then, people have made the trip in 40 days. Bruce is determined to do it in 39 days on his bike with only one leg. He didn’t have a prosthesis, but used a toe strap to both push and pull on the left bicycle pedal with his remaining leg.

The movie shows his ups and downs as he gets ready to go to Boston. I like the movie for many reasons. First, I like the wisdom in it. Surprised Bruce would even have a chance to live, Dr. Reade played by Javier Grajeda says, “All I saw was a young, strong, body refuse to give up when a normal body should have.” His mother, Mrs. Jennings, played by E.J Peaker says,

“Dr. Reade, If we don’t look for every bit of hope we can find, what good are we to the life in there?” So true!

I also love Mr. Perry who has a positive outlook on life and is full of wisdom. He asks Bruce to give him a date for when he’s going to Boston. When Bruce asks Mr. Perry why he has such a hang up about time, Mr. Perry replies, “Time is the very essence of life. You waste your time you waste your life.” Bruce learns not to waste time and begins training for Boston with the help of professionals, friends, and family.

Secondly, I like the movie because the disability never goes away. I’ve seen so many movies where the main character has an illness but by the end of the movie the illness is completely cured and the character has completely normal use of every part of the body. As the old storybook ending goes, “And they all lived happily ever after.” That drives me crazy! While I believe that can happen, I also know there are instances where the illness or disability never goes away. Look at me. I was born with cerebral palsy. I’ll always have cerebral palsy. I’ve seen a lot of organizations out there trying to find a cure for many things. I don’t have a problem trying to find a cure, but that can be expensive. What if the experiment doesn’t work? Then what? How long are we going to spend trying to find a cure? When is the time to say, “This is not curable. I need to learn how to live with it instead of get rid of it?” What if the condition you have is meant to stay with you for a lifetime? Are you going to cry about it the rest of your life, or are you going to do what you can with what you have and make a difference in your community?

Look at Jesus’ response to the disciples about the blind man in John 9:3. “When asked who sinned, Jesus replied, “Neither this man nor his parents sinned,” said Jesus, “but this happened so that the works of God might be displayed in him.” (NIV). Instead of always trying to get rid of an illness or disability, we should be asking, “How can I use this to glorify God, my Creator?”

Finally, I like the movie because I saw a lot of myself in Bruce. As he’s training, he turns into quite a fighter. While others question whether or not the trip is possible Bruce says, “I’m not giving up now!” I found myself rooting for him. Go, Bruce!

DreamRider is the most positive movie about a person with a disability I’ve seen so far. Other movies like Me Before You portray people with disabilities in a negative light. The person with the disability loses hope and wants help committing suicide.

On the other hand, in DreamRider, the main character learns having a disability doesn’t mean the end of life, he just has to learn to do things differently. He gets a chance to ride across the country on one leg. What an opportunity! The guy used to play football. By having the new challenge, he gets to do something he might not have done otherwise and show the world you can do anything you put your mind to! I wish the film industry would make more movies like this today! We need it!

The night before his trip to Boston, as they talk about his journey, Mr. Perry encourages him not to stop.  Bruce says, “I can’t go any further than Boston.”

Mr. Perry answers, “I don’t mean just the bicycle. Stay on the journey of your life. That’s what counts.” As they go inside, Mr. Perry asks, “Do you know what a real winner is? A  real winner is a guy who does his best. It doesn’t matter what the score book says.”

Amen! Lord, guide me as I stay on the journey of life. Let me be a winner in your eyes as I run the race for you. Thank you for allowing me to live!

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